Modern Polyamory

Modern Polyamory is a podcast and online platform designed to explore and normalize ethical non-monogamy through thoughtful discussions, research-based insights, and real-world experiences. Hosted by Jan Dominy, a relationship scientist and author currently pursuing a degree in clinical psychology, alongside co-host Kyle Peltier, the podcast provides a fresh, honest perspective on the complexities of polyamory, open relationships, and consensual non-monogamy (CNM).

At its core, Modern Polyamory seeks to bridge the gap between theoretical knowledge and practical experience. The podcast delves into the realities of polyamorous and open relationships—navigating everything from communication strategies, boundary-setting, and jealousy management to unpacking common misconceptions and discussing the intersectionality of polyamory with identity, culture, and society. The show is tailored to anyone from seasoned polyamorists to those just curious about CNM. With engaging conversations and a focus on intentional relationship-building, Modern Polyamory serves as both a guide and a community for those seeking to understand and thrive in non-monogamous spaces.

The Hosts
Jan Dominy, a passionate relationship scientist and author, brings both personal experience and professional expertise to the podcast. Having dedicated years to researching interpersonal relationships, especially within the context of consensual non-monogamy, Jan offers listeners a balanced mix of academic insight and lived experience. As someone who is actively pursuing a clinical psychology degree, Jan draws on research to help listeners navigate complex relationship dynamics in a thoughtful, trauma-informed manner.

Kyle Peltier, Jan’s co-host and partner, is integral to the dynamic of the podcast. With his own experiences in non-monogamous relationships, Kyle adds another layer of depth to the discussions. His perspective as a participant in ethical non-monogamy offers listeners a practical and relatable take on the topics discussed. Together, Jan and Kyle create a welcoming space where polyamory is talked about openly—no judgment, no shame, just honest conversation.

What Makes Modern Polyamory Unique
Unlike many mainstream discussions of non-monogamy that can be sensationalized or stigmatized, Modern Polyamory takes a thoughtful, evidence-based approach to the topic. While other platforms may focus on the excitement of non-monogamous lifestyles, Modern Polyamory is committed to addressing the full spectrum of the experience, from the challenges to the joys.

The podcast’s unique approach is informed by Jan’s academic background in psychology and relationship science. As a researcher, she provides listeners with tools and frameworks for managing complex relationship dynamics, creating healthy communication, and approaching non-monogamy with intentionality. The show emphasizes that ethical non-monogamy is not a one-size-fits-all model, but rather a deeply individual and adaptable practice that can be tailored to fit the needs, values, and desires of those involved.

The podcast's content focuses on the practical application of non-monogamous principles. Episodes are designed to demystify non-monogamy and make it approachable for anyone looking to explore or deepen their understanding. Topics range from the basics, such as terminology and communication strategies, to more advanced discussions on navigating jealousy, establishing and maintaining boundaries, and dealing with societal stigma.

Educational and Supportive Content
Modern Polyamory is not only informative, but also a source of support for listeners. The hosts encourage open dialogue about the struggles and triumphs of polyamory, providing a platform for listeners to ask questions, share their experiences, and connect with others who are walking similar paths. Through interviews with relationship experts, educators, and community leaders, the podcast fosters a sense of belonging for those who might feel isolated in their polyamorous or open relationships.

The podcast's goal is to normalize consensual non-monogamy by presenting it as a valid, healthy relationship structure. It challenges the conventional norms surrounding monogamy and provides listeners with the knowledge and resources to create relationships based on mutual respect, trust, and open communication. By dismantling myths about polyamory and offering real-world advice, Modern Polyamory empowers individuals to explore non-monogamy with confidence and clarity.

Community and Resources
In addition to the podcast, Modern Polyamory offers a variety of resources on its website. Listeners can find articles, blog posts, and additional content related to consensual non-monogamy, communication strategies, and mental health. The website also serves as a community hub for those who wish to connect, share experiences, and access support.